Paying it Forward in 2024
The term ‘Pay it Forward’ is not about telling the world how great you are, it is simply showing unconditional love to the universe, knowing that you can help someone else, without expectation. In 2024, rather than have outlandish goals you relinquish after 2 days into the new year, can you help carry someone’s shopping to their car or cross the street?
Did anyone of you hold a door open for someone? Get your ass off your chair, riding whichever public service you use, for someone who needed it? Did anyone cook for themselves, and offered food to someone who is less fortunate? Paying It Forward comes in many forms and the form I am loving at the moment, is surrounding myself with some of the most beautiful souls who are literally ‘Paying it Forward’ to me! Because I live this way in my life, it is always a blessing when you see the fruits of the ‘Pay it Forward’ life.
Like many of you reading this, you are a loving and giving person but how many people give back to you? Have you ever seen someone who consistently ‘Pays it Forward’ broke? I personally have not. There may be struggles but God/The Universe always takes care of those good souls.
I, once, gave comfort to a woman who literally received a call, while seated on a bus. Her cries were heartbreaking because it felt as if she had been told someone had passed. I remember experiencing this happen to someone at work. I quietly sat down next to her and rubbed her back as she cried and said she needs to get off the bus. As an empath with the ability of both Claircognizant "Clear Knowing" knowing what impacts someone is so powerful and knowing what to do in the moment, intuitively, provides peace in that moment.
You just have a knowing about things. For many strong in this gift it feels like knowledge pours into the top of their heads. For you, you may have a "knowing" of their name. and also being Clairsentient "Clear Feeling." These are the feelers, the empaths. People who have this feel their angels guidance in their bodies and in their heart. So you may feel the vibration of their name or what their name means (Desy, 2017).
Paying it forward, is not about the acknowledgement or expectation, it simply allows for each individual person to use positive energy to do something with love and be in the flow of it.
I talk about love in many of my blog pieces, podcast/radio show, and I swear to you that sometimes I ask myself to people really operate on that frequency? I have worked and dated a lot of people who are aggressive, angry, suffer from low self esteem which indicates a few things to me. 1) I am attracting energies I need to heal in myself and 2) I can choose to be a light in the darkness but know when to pull away I order to keep my spiritual energy protected in some way or another. This is so I do not become infected with whatever energy these individuals possess.
While living in the Middle East my spiritual side was so important to tap into and I lived for every episode of Oprah which played out daily on the channel MBC. While I was watching a particular episode of my Mentor, Oprah Winfrey, something very profound was said by a young boy who suffers from an acute form of the mental dis-ease which was being Bipolar. He stated, “when negative thoughts come into my mind, I say to myself I am love. I have to cover myself with the ‘white light.’” I was blown away. It was like something opened up for me at that point.
I know I am a positive person, and paying it forward, for me spiritually is a gift, so asking for God to continue covering me with that white light, which I believe is ‘Spiritual Protection’ is beyond and above everything in my current possession. In my mind, I believe and know that God and all that he is, is an important clarification of the beautiful work we do from a place of love, when we become automators of naturally Paying it Forward on a daily basis.
I like to look at all religions for inspiration and this does not mean I am trying to convert anyone in any shape or form. Key element here is using information to support the light workers of the world to continue to Pay it Forward. So I leave you with this;
2 Corinthians 9:7-8
7: Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 8: And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.
Being free from anxiety, expectation, frustration and disappointments will mend your hearts to move into the realm of unconditional love. I know, because I am a constant work in progress, like you all. When Oprah responded to this young man who suffers experiences Bipolar disorder she said something along these lines (I have to say “along these lines,” because we know misquoting Oprah can lead to court appearances……lol);
“I try to put on the white light to protect me from negative influences around me. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t, but I still ask for protection from God.”
And that is the key, to understanding that Paying it Forward sometimes will not always be appreciated. You know that when it comes from a place of love, you are always protected. Remember, God knows our hearts more than you realize.
On that note, do something for someone, and remember, once you do it…….let go, no need to be attached to the outcome.
May your days continue to be filled with clarity, love, and most importantly THAT WHITE LIGHT and allow for 2024 to be a year of magic!!
Much Love,
DMC.
Bibliography;
Phylameana lila Desy. (2017). Four Commonly Known Intuitive Senses. [Online]. Learn Religions. Available at: https://www.learnreligions.com/meanings-of-the-clairs-1730515 [Accessed 5 February 2023].
